Jmstl - This is my first posting off something that is not my situation. I could be way of base here; but from what I read in these threads is when it comes to the children; you basically have to do whats best for them only. Go for her, not your W.
Again, this is my first advice ever.
I get that, but D will just tell me about it. There is no reason for me to really go
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017