Jmstl - This is my first posting off something that is not my situation. I could be way of base here; but from what I read in these threads is when it comes to the children; you basically have to do whats best for them only. Go for her, not your W.

Again, this is my first advice ever.

M:30 W:28
T:9 MR:2.5
NoKids
Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16
Move back in: 1/17
BD: 8/15
She moved out: 9/1