So, this just happened.. Ex:Taking daughter to piano lesson with new teacher. Would you like to be there with us to meet her? Me: No...I have plans. Ex:A bit of a pause...Oh..(with a tone of slight disappointment, or maybe surprise) Okay.

I mean, I have a life now that does not include her. I am not going to drop them at the last minute.

Married 9: Together 11
M:37 W:35
S:2 D:7
Bomb dropped 6/3/2017
W moved out 7/1/2017
Separation Filed: 8/1/2017
Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017
Divorced: 10/5/2017