Make sure your blog is discreet enough that your w won't feel offended, and yet don't write it b/c you are trying to get a reaction from her. Detach!
(But Don't reveal info that harms your legal interests or your DBing).
Hang in there
25. I am writing this for ME, and noone else. Even if noone else ever reads it, i am writing to get it out. I have already made basically an intro and one post. It is very open and raw. I have no intention of disparaging W, and yet I am not really going to censor myself. In truth, if she were to read it, I think she would gain quite a lot of insight that she might not have ever gotten in our talks. But I have no expectation she will read it, nor would I care if she did.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017
My W journaled when she was younger and started again sometime during this separation. The only reason why I know is because my oldest D made a comment to me about her and mommy writing together. I guess she has some things to work out .
In all seriousness I am happy for her that maybe she is taking some steps to release whatever the thoughts are she has in her head.
I am curious if linking to it would constitute "advertising though".
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017
I don't think so, but it might be better to just not link to it. It might fall under the category of revealing personal information.
Yeah..maybe Cadet will chime in.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017
Tomorrow's GAL Agenda. Wake up, short walk, KB class, Party at the GYM, 4-5 mi hike, a little downtime to work on the blog, then just added live music to the evening schedule.
Pretty busy Saturday, but hey, I'm not complaining.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017
Her-I thought I was picking them up. My clasd doesnt end until 815, can it be 820, or can you bring them to class
Me-Come get them at 830
5 min later I get a phone call..I didnt realize it was my week for you to drop them off
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017
Just dropped them off. I was very short on words. Twice she asked if everything was okay, even tho I was upbeat (of course everything isn't okay!) Set the boundary, did not enter her apt, hugged my kids outside the door and left. W told me to have a good weekend...gah eff you
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017
So, this just happened.. Ex:Taking daughter to piano lesson with new teacher. Would you like to be there with us to meet her? Me: No...I have plans. Ex:A bit of a pause...Oh..(with a tone of slight disappointment, or maybe surprise) Okay.
I mean, I have a life now that does not include her. I am not going to drop them at the last minute.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017
Jmstl - This is my first posting off something that is not my situation. I could be way of base here; but from what I read in these threads is when it comes to the children; you basically have to do whats best for them only. Go for her, not your W.
Again, this is my first advice ever.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
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