Thank you my friend. I have made a new and happier life for myself and with my H. And I had you and KK there holding my hand and lending a shoulder all the way through it, so I'd say that WE made my life better.
All the good and loving people on this board, who share and encourage, advise and take us to task when we need it, are a HUGE part of the reason that we made it to the other side of this nightmare and come out of it a better, happier person for OURSELVES, if no one else.
Everyone just needs to remember that ' hearing the sound advice of others is meaningless if we ignore that advice and just keep doing what will never work.
The hardest thing ANY of us have to accept is the fact that sometimes YOU HAVE to go against your "gut instincts" and listen to your brain NOT your heart. T2