Originally Posted By: JDub
Sorry you are going through this

Sounds like her business is priority No. 1 and there's a lot of stress at work. It's the worst when there's an emergency and you can't get online.

I can tell you as an entrepreneur, sometimes things come up when you least want them to... and the best thing my spouse can do is let me do what I need to do. Take the kids, read a book, take the dog for a walk, just let me be.

Can you get help around the house for the small things? I'm guessing that if work can get out of control, she is looking for something she can control...like messes in the house. That's the way my S operates, anyway.


Thanks for the welcome JDub

Yes, business is definitely a major priority. I really do understand that things do come up in our business and they have to be handled in a timely manner. That said, even our coaches in the past have told us we need a better balance in our business and our clients need to be taught to repect our time away from the office.

We have a full time assistant in the office and hired yard maintenance a few months back. We have talked and planned on having a maid come in one a week but never got around to it. Ironically I guess we were to busy.


Me: 42
W: 47
S: 10
M: Almost 10 in Oct
T: 15
1st BD: Feb 2016
Divorce Filed: Mar 2016
Separated: Mar 2016
Reconciled: Oct 2016
2nd BD: Aug 2017