W wants a Divorce.. Again

[lostrig]

How long did it take some of you on this forum to start to GAL successfully after the initial BD.

Reason I ask is I just really don't feel like doing much of anything right now. If I'm out and about I kind of just find myself in daze and unfocused. Last weekend I took my son to the beach and most of the time I would find myself watching other families and feeling somewhat jealous I didn't have that.