Not sure if NGS is defined somewhere, but that definitely sounds like me by its name.
I had always thought a PA would be a dealbreaker. Turned out it wasn't. But it would be a dealbreaker if it happened again, definitely!
Yes, boundaries and transparency requirements are things I still need to dig into and work out. I agree about 'girls gone wild' - zero tolerance for that.
Me48 W46 D22 D20 T30 M28 BD/PA revealed 05/2017 W moved out 06/2017 DB started 9/6/2017