Originally Posted By: AvgGuy
Looking back, I was probably too clingy for her.
I've always enjoyed her company and seen her as my best friend. She's always my first choice for hanging out or doing things with.


Yeah not attractive. A man needs a purpose, goals, spending time with the guys, working out. The good news is now you understand where you went wrong.

Do you suffer from NGS "nice guy syndrome?

What are your boundaries? Is a physical affair a deal breaker?

IMO you have to let her know that she can't go "girls gone wild" and them come home to her family when she is done. If you do not, IMO this is going to be a long painful process for you.

Do some research on boundaries so you are clear that boundaries are not to control her but to establish what you are willing to accept and there has to be consequences if they are crossed.