I would also add that a buddy of mine at work who is a former teen counselor thinks that the W cheated on me around the BD time frame and regrets it. He says that all of her P/A is to get me to turn into a meanie so that she has a reason to justify her actions.
FWIW I often find the W crying alone in bed. That could be depression, regret or still trying to choose which life she wants.
I totally agree. She did, or is, cheating. That's my opinion and I'm sticking with it. If there's one thing I know...it's a cheating spouse.
