Well, yesterday my phone blew up. W tried to call maybe 20 times. Cell, office, even coaxed D20 to call on her behalf, I later found out. Me: ignore, ignore, ignore. Then a text comes. "If you don't call me immediately, I'll never speak to you again." Me: ignore.
AG,
First off I am really sorry your are here but as I can see DB is already paying off. Classic distance/pursuit phenomenon.
You have to admire the mindset of the WW.
Sounds like you are a quick study and understand begging, pleading and pursuing was only making your situation worse.
Continue NC and only answer actionable questions regarding the children.
What do you think caused her to go outside the marriage?
We are here to help so please ask questions, vent here as often as possible.
