Originally Posted By: JDub
Plus, I want the kids. I'm the more consistent, focused parent anyway. I guess that by being away, she'll avoid seeing their pain and anguish on a day-in, day-out basis, and that would suck for me while she lives in her happy fantasy.


In that case, absolutely let her move out and leave the kids with you. I wish my STBXW would do the same for me.

Don't worry about her seeing their pain or whether she's enjoying her happy fantasy.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.