Plus, I want the kids. I'm the more consistent, focused parent anyway. I guess that by being away, she'll avoid seeing their pain and anguish on a day-in, day-out basis, and that would suck for me while she lives in her happy fantasy.
In that case, absolutely let her move out and leave the kids with you. I wish my STBXW would do the same for me.
Don't worry about her seeing their pain or whether she's enjoying her happy fantasy.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18