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I get it, I really do. But once she's out of the house parts of this will probably get easier.

Easier? Can you explain what you mean by this?

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No more "you seem conflicted/confused."

OK. I'd rather drop the R discussions for a while entirely. Among other things, my IC suggested seeing her with me just once to explore the conflicted-ness, so I can better understand and manage what's potentially ahead. But that would take some time to set up.