only speaking for my group, DivorceCare is excellent and the religion is there if you want it, but it is not pushed.
They end in prayers that seem appropriate to me. (I'm not in their denomination, but never felt like they were trying to recruit).
It is Very helpful to speak in real life with people struggling with the same things we do here. And they're fun and part of GAL.
Supporting them in their journey is so appreciated that it may help you, Chris, to give and receive support in your life. From something you said, you may need to work on connecting with people other than your wife. It's healthy and helpful.
Hang in there
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016