She signed a 1 year lease on an apartment and will move in the first week of October.
This will be good for you - gives you time and space and also will allow you to GAL, detach, and drop the rope.
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She told me that there is no OM and there never has been one. She just wants to be alone to focus on school and to decide what she really wants in life.
I wouldn't believe anything she says at this point. There may not be an OM or evidence of an A, but there could totally also be a fantasy affair which is some perfect scenario in her head. Don't dwell on the A part, but I wouldn't trust her words right now.
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Of course her being behind in school and having to work multiple jobs to pay for things she shouldn't buy is my fault.
Of course. She needs to blame someone and that person is you. Once she moves out and you're not in the equation and around, she will slowly realize her problems are her problems and not you.
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As is always with a MLC/WAW you can't believe much of what they say.
Don't get hung up on the MLC part. People want to believe that their S is MLC because it gives them an excuse to not move on with their life and focus on themselves.
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With her gone, I'll be able to focus on myself.
Precisely what you need to start right now any ways. Don't wait until she moves out. Just start.
