Make sure your blog is discreet enough that your w won't feel offended, and yet don't write it b/c you are trying to get a reaction from her. Detach!
(But Don't reveal info that harms your legal interests or your DBing).
Hang in there
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016