What do you mean 'you dont do divorce'? What is your alternative - chaining your W up in the basement? At some point, if she files, youre going to have to...do divorce. I would realign your thinking.
I realize that if she files I can't stop the divorce. What I'm trying to convey is that I'm not going to voluntarily help end the marriage and break apart the family.
Originally Posted By: Kaizen
I dont believe that divorce is the solution to our problems, but I love and respect you enough to move forward with it if you so choose.[/i]
Think about how those words are different from saying: - Divorce isnt the solution to our problems - I dont do divorce
