Wants to separate/divorce Pursued multiple OM's while living under this roof
I hope you are not throwing that in her face in your talks. IT's all blame. YES SHE is the one who wants out but you want her to stay, not take on your anger.
No...Certainly not the second sentence. I've already told her that I'm not the one who wants to S/D. So I realize there is no need to continually repeat that.
Everything else you have said makes perfect sense and has caused me to pause and reevaluate my interactions with WW.
AnotherStander also said that I should always ask myself the following question: "what is the goal" while interacting with WW. That keeps me from going off on an unnecessary tangent that will cause further damage to the R.
