Wife Wants to Leave Marriage 5

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I guess I really didn't expect a thing from W. Just seriously disappointed in her again. This woman claims that she seriously cared about my family and not a word. My W has shown more concern for a complete stranger. 17 year's together and this is how I am treated. As if I have never done a thing for her. I expect more from W, because she knew of my relationship with my family more than anyone. It's hard for me to trust anyone and allow them to get close. And W is someone that I allowed to did so.

So if you didnt expect a thing from her, then why are you so upset that she didnt do anything? Im having trouble following that logic. It sounds like you didnt think she would do anything, but you expected that she would. Since her behavior didnt match your expectations, now you are upset.

Im still curious as to what behavior from her would have made you happy? A text? A card? Coming to the funeral? Something else?

She clearly doesn't care about how her actions affect him.

So are you going to take lessons from her?

A little shaming might do her some good.

Seriously?

My silence has not helped the situation. Only empower her delusions.

I dont think your silence has had an impact one way or another, tbh. It sounds like you are impatient and want SOMETHING to happen either way. I think you are mind reading a ton.