Sorry to hear about your grandmaw. I don't think I ever put this on here but we flooded in the August 2016 Louisiana floods. My work got 5 foot, parents 1 foot, me and inlaws were lucky and got a few inches. I didn't know if I had a job anymore and worked from morning to night pulling up carpet, sheetrock and hauling stuff to the dump. This was at my house, work, parent and inlaws. Guess how much W helped? Zero point zero times. She claimed she was getting "called out" to the hospital all the time all the while she was bumping and grinding with OM. This was all before she moved out.
All this to say that I too endured something catastrophic and got zip from W. It took me a year to figure this out but I'm really close to not caring what W does. I don't ask her about feelings, thoughts, sympathy, nothing. Im really close to being at peace in the situation. You too seem angry. I had to let all mine go. I was breaking things inside my house and just being nasty. From that I decided to let it all go, its been a night and day difference. I'm not all the way there but its the best I felt in a year.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
