I guess I really didn't expect a thing from W. Just seriously disappointed in her again. This woman claims that she seriously cared about my family and not a word. My W has shown more concern for a complete stranger. 17 year's together and this is how I am treated. As if I have never done a thing for her. I expect more from W, because she knew of my relationship with my family more than anyone. It's hard for me to trust anyone and allow them to get close. And W is someone that I allowed to did so.
As far as her being the mother to S13. I have used that as an excuse for far too long. She clearly doesn't care about how her actions affect him. And depends on my silence to continue with business as usual. A little shaming might do her some good. If not, then so be it. My silence has not helped the situation. Only empower her delusions.