Wife Wants to Leave Marriage 5

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Im sorry again for your loss. I understand that each situation (with W and with Grandma) are both difficult on their own and I hope that you take some time to calm down and reflect before really acting.

Even after I found out about the A. I still put that aside to support my W and provide comfort near losses of her friends and family.

So, why did you that? And why do you have the expectation that she would reciprocate?

I lose my grandmother and nothing, but silence. Yet she is social media W is writing poetry about friendship. Would a friend treat another like this?

So did every friend of yours on social media reach out to offer condolences and support? Why do you expect more of W given the current landscape of your R?

What exactly do you expect from her? A few words of condolence? A card? A home cooked meal? What do you think would be an appropriate response from her?

I left the burial grounds today with every intent on serving W with divorce papers next week. There is nothing else there, but a child we share.

Id say do what you want, but if it were me, I would wait until I wasnt in an emotional state. You can sense the anger percolating through the screen. I highly recommend you let that subside before you take any actions. What's the rush anyway?

And I don't even intend on being cordial with her at this point. Just sharing basic information and keeping it moving. This woman doesn't deserve compassion or empathy. I want the world to know what kind of a human being my W is. From there the world can deal with her accordingly. But I am seriously tired of her fake a**.

To me, if you truly didnt care how this worked out, then you would just leave her to live her life. Ive read that hate or anger arent opposites of love; they live on the same spectrum of emotions. The opposite is indifference. When you realize that you dont give a sh*t anymore what the world thinks of her, Id say then, you are ready to file for D and move on.

And remember, this woman is still the mother of your child. How do you think she will be treated when kids at school are talking about what her mother did or didnt do?

Just food for thought.