Been away for a while I seemed to have been missed! I appreciate your concerns unfortunately I’m still here.
Quick catch up – basically not much has changed except for me GALing more, I’m now actively spending time away from home and the boys overnight which is a massive 180 for me my life was centred around WW and them. Today again I’m away which is impacting the normality we have fallen into and WW is starting to ask questions.
With all what’s going on she’s adamant I’m seeing another woman and when she dropped the boys off today before going to work asked what I was doing, I remained aloof but was pushed to answer! I told her what I was doing (hiking the peak district) but didn’t deny or confirm that another person was involved also. When she was leaving she said “she a lucky woman” again I didn’t raise to the comment and remained aloof, can I ask the forums views on whether to continue to let her wonder about another woman OR come out and deny there’s any other person involved?
Don’t get me wrong I’m nowhere near ready to start another R as I’m still deeply involved in trying to save my MR. I feel her A is beginning to evolve into some kind of regularity and normality and the excitement that was driving it is waning slightly, she’s still deeply in the “fog” but her interest in what I’m doing is growing. I’m doing all the above as I see now that no matter what I do to bring her back to the marriage I can’t do anything to change her attitude so might as well enjoy myself and GAL. I continue to show a happy, confident brilliant dad but one now that is no longer obsessed in what his WW and the AP/LO are doing.
Again thanks for the continued support I appreciate it.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
