Condolences re your FIL. Good for you for honoring your D's wishes and really kind of you to ask XW how she is doing through all of this.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving