Still here. Still not detached...

[Kylo]

Re: Divorce Care. There's a good chance they won't even recite a bible verse. The classes at my church are usually just classes with a prayer at the beginning or end.

I hear you on the support from family and friends. Sometimes I will be somewhere and I'm thinking "you know my wife wants to leave me right?", but I check myself quickly.

It is uncomfortable for them, and many of them don't know what to do. I know I'm just not a very thoughtful person. I miss all kinds of opportunities to show love; it just doesn't occur to me at the time. And in general, people don't want to talk about depressing, hard subjects. If you ask a specific question on the subject, it can get the convo rolling.

OTOH, you do find out that the number of people who would actually do something for you isn't that large, and I feel that these are the people that make life worth living. That is also the reason why losing the W is painful; you thought she was one of those people.