Another thought regarding: "The girls do not want us there(the house) together...that's not an option "
I've never told WW that she is not welcome in the house. I've made it clear that she is welcome in the house anytime she wants. Just that I'm not the one who wants the S/D therefore I'm not leaving the house.
I also don't think that the adults should let the kids dictate the terms of a relationship.
