I don't know if D's really don't want us there together. WW said "d's want to stay in the house with just me here". I asked D17 and she said "that's not what I said"
There really isn't room in our house for us to have separate space. I figure if I'm 180ing then I won't be in her space all that much. I have a huge certification that I'm studying for plus I have a boatload of work travel coming up.
I'm making some progress because previously I would have immediately responded to try and convince her to go to MC that we owe it to D's to try one last time to save M...do you want to just throw 27 years away, etc. which would have quickly unraveled
