I would also add that a buddy of mine at work who is a former teen counselor thinks that the W cheated on me around the BD time frame and regrets it. He says that all of her P/A is to get me to turn into a meanie so that she has a reason to justify her actions.
FWIW I often find the W crying alone in bed. That could be depression, regret or still trying to choose which life she wants.
BD: 5/28/17 "We're like roommates, there is no passion anymore" Early October she is moving out so she can "think about what she really wants in life" 10/22/17 She's gone
