Ok let's assume this is all true, and you are spot on, and she's not "with" me. That it's all hopeless and the unstated purpose of these boards is actually a D support group, not a DB group. I'd much rather bust this than have it stay broken.
Then focus on yourself and be the best hombre you can be. That way she will take notice and maybe want to be your W again.
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I have heard from some family law sites that it's better to NOT be the S who leaves the MBR or home, it sends a better signal when the LBS stays put.
Everyone on here says never leave your MBR or your house. She wants out she can go but you stay put.