Since this is my GOOD NEWS thread I thought I'd share another FIRST with y'all.
The weather here was beautiful this weekend (finally) it was sunny and in the low 80's.
I spent Saturday shopping the early afternoon away with my mom and then went to see an old friend off on his three month trip by RV to Colorado. Brought my H with me and we had a really nice time.
Then today...came the FIRST...the weather was so beautiful that several of my H's AA Harley buddies wanted to go on a ride AND to my amazement he asked me about going and said he'd like me to come with them. THIS may seem like no big deal (and actually it shouldn't be) but the fact that one of the greatest downfalls of our M was my H always keeping me wayyyyyy out of the loop of friends he had in the program, this was major thing for him. Well, I went and the six guys that came along were all very pleasant. None of them brought their wives, but I wasn't the least bit uncomfortable. My H was very attentive to me as if he was showing these guys that he was happy and proud that our M had survived his period of insanity and he was letting them know that from now on...where he goes, I go. So, this is yet another wall my H is tearing down for himself. GOOD FOR US!! T2