[Quote}You "deserve" to know? What, if she's having an A? Here is all you "deserve" to know- did she break her marriage vows? THAT is all you need to know, and the answer is YES. [/Quote]
Well, ok, so...this is a little extreme. She didn't as best as I can tell break any vow. I actually broke a vow. Talking with other men, if that's all that this is, is not breaking any vow that we took. Marriages go through cycles, and we're in a down cycle. Does not mean we can't move on to something even better. I'm not saying this R will go anywhere good, but crazier things have happened.