So where do you go from here? Your M is dead, gone, in the shitter.
Ok let's assume this is all true, and you are spot on, and she's not "with" me. That it's all hopeless and the unstated purpose of these boards is actually a D support group, not a DB group. I'd much rather bust this than have it stay broken.
So now what? Do I throw her out? Not show up to my party tomorrow night to signal to friends that something dire is going on? I have heard from some family law sites that it's better to NOT be the S who leaves the MBR or home, it sends a better signal when the LBS stays put.
