I guess for me, the real question here isn't whether she's having an A, it is this:
Is my wife: a- With Me? b- Not With Me?
Your W is clearly (b), end of story. What does it matter if she's talking to someone else, or shagging the Dallas Cowboys, or being a saint? She is NOT WITH YOU. So you need to ACT ACCORDINGLY. Get out. GAL. Leave her to her journey while you take yours.
Not going to threadjack here, but thanks AS. I also needed to hear this.
