Lost in Austin - Possible WAW

[Holding]

There is risk here that W will bolt, or that I will. Your W admitted a PA, as have seemingly many others on here, but mine is hiding things and keeping secrets, even though I have some circumstantial evidence that points in a direction. Our R may not make it, but I do deserve to know what the truth is.

Haven't you all reached similar crossroads?

My W was very secretive with her phone and changed all her passwords. She denied anything was going on. I collected info on a possible A over the course of a month. It slowly killed me, but certainly helped me detach. Although it wasn't black & white evidence, I eventually reached a point where I couldn't hold it in any more, and I confronted W. She denied it and said he was just a friend. I told her I didn't believe her.

If you can stand to keep what you know to yourself, do that for as long as possible. But be very aware of the toll it'll take on you.