Lost in Austin - Possible WAW

[joejoe1]

JDub,

I will say. You are right I had to know. But to be honest what did it accomphlish. You will look much stronger if you don't worry about it (which is hard) and start DBing, start distancing, start 180s. Me knowing didn't change her mind. And it only made me pursue harder. It made me not focus on myself and what I needed to do to become better.

IMHO, knowing will not change much and you are still going to have to do the same techniques. It has been three weeks since I found out. If I would of start DB when she told me she was fed up, I would be a lot further along at this point. This is my first full week of DBing, 180s, GALing and not talking about the M or R. Not starting any convo, not calling or T. So it took me three weeks. I'm telling you this, so you can create you own roadmap and get ahead of the game. Do what works and knowing won't change a thing but make you more upset, IMHO.