JoeJoe - She has repeatedly denied a PA. I validated what she's told me because she got really tired of hearing me doubt her.
The possible OM lives literally on the other side of the planet, so there are no rendezvous other than skype appointments while she's at work - never on weekends, no lovey chats on her phone - none of the "normal" signs. I think this is some kind of escape for her.
My IC is encouraging me to stand up for myself and set boundaries.
There is risk here that W will bolt, or that I will. Your W admitted a PA, as have seemingly many others on here, but mine is hiding things and keeping secrets, even though I have some circumstantial evidence that points in a direction. Our R may not make it, but I do deserve to know what the truth is.
