Originally Posted By: Benni8
Originally Posted By: Jmstl

One of my friends thinks she does it to keep my attention, but I don't necessarily subscribe to that, but what do you all think?


Im sure you must be doing this on purpose now!

Stop mind reading! Stop thinking what does this mean etc!

Just please stop


Benni, I am not trying to read her mind. I don't care if she does it to get my attention, or for whatever reason she does it. Her reasons are HER concern, not mine. I have been trying to move through the day, one step at a time. I don't sit there and think "Why did she send that". For me, it has been more of a flowchart. Get email/text. Is it about the kids? Is it actionable? Does it require a response?

But I guess I can see your point in me telling my friend "Nah, I don't think she is doing it for attention" can come of as mind reading. Actually, I guess it is. So instead, I will just say "I don't care why she did it"


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