Jm....I did all of this when my sitch first started, I hung my hopes and dreams on every little interaction. You have to stop, you will drive yourself crazy trying to analyze and interrupt everything she says or does.
Early on my W would send me text pictures of the girls during the day and at night when they were with her. I remember thinking what does it mean? Why is she doing this? Is it a sign that she wants to get back together? She must be thinking about me........WOOHOO!!!
Just so you know she has never brought up reconciliation or any hint of wanting to work on our marriage. Maybe she was just trying to be a good co-parent and let me know that she was going things with the girls and they were having fun.
You have to stop or you will drive yourself crazy.
