is the "EM" an affair you had or that she had? And then she confronted you about it?
How did it get resolved? This might not be a MLC if she felt betrayed or insecure before hand
But it does NOT matter if it's MLC or WAW.
YOUR course of action is the same. Do you get that? In what ways are you becoming a wife only a fool would leave?
Any GAL yet? Are you back at work now? Do you like your job? How are the kids?
Are they siblings or all adopted from different homes? I'm not clear on that.
Hang in there
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
