Looking back, only my ignorance kept me from realizing there should be something there...
Same with me.
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-Her mom is a narcissist and probably more. She is so self-centered it is comical. Just a poor mother.
Same with my W...she removed her from her life a little over a year ago.
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-Her dad moved away. He took her brother with him for a period of time.
W's dad has no relationship with my W's brother and barely has a relationship with her. She essentially takes what she can get.
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-Some guy expose himself to her as a kid. Also she was cryptic, but possibly molested?
W says her stepdad tried watching her change as a teenager from the closet and thinks he tried to finger her in a swimming pool.
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Always has a "next thing" to want. BPDish trait.
Same w my W. Never happy always searching.
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-Can't admit she is wrong or sorry. BPDish trait.
Oh never!!
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-Walls were down, then were up, which follows the idealization to devaluing of the other person (me). I used to be the TP (total package) to her. I was such a good person (to her)! Then I wasn't so good. Then no compliments whatsoever. then I didn't like her anymore.
My W told me I was her rock last year and she could never imagine her life without me or the kids.
