Dam, that open the eyes. I guess that text is not or her, it would be for me, to see her reaction. I won't send the text. I will keep pushing forward with my actions.
I have another question, how many days a week do you all GAL. I want to be home when my kids go to bed. Is there an overkill on GALing?
GAL as much as you want. It's your life. Your choices. Make your kids part of it if you like. Find fun activities for you and them and plan them. You don't need to run any of it past your wife, you plan your comings and goings with your team and she wants off the team, hence she's out of the loop.
