Dam, that open the eyes. I guess that text is not or her, it would be for me, to see her reaction. I won't send the text. I will keep pushing forward with my actions.
Don't do it....if she doesn't respond you will feel like crap and if she does respond you probably be left wanting more. This is part of the detachment process. IMO when you start feeling good and confident about yourself, to the point to where you really have no expectations you could alter your approach some but until then do nothing. I am 3 months in and still do not initiate any contact with my W unless it is about kids or finances and even then I only initiate about .5% of the time.
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I have another question, how many days a week do you all GAL. I want to be home when my kids go to bed. Is there an overkill on GALing?
I have young kids so on the weeks I have them, during the school year maybe 1 time during the week and then on the weekends we do something every Sat and Sun.
I do not have my kids this week so I have done something every night so far after work. My GAL has been the gym, lifting weights, swimming, things like that. I go to church every Sunday and this past Saturday watched college football with some friends.
Everyone is different and needs something different. For me the gym and working out is the best way I can relieve my stress and gain my confidence back. I also invested a lot of money into new clothes and personal hygene items like body lotions, eye cream, things like that, my hair. If you can accomplish that with under water basket weaving then go for it!!
To me the quicker you can get your self-confidence back the better off you will be and it will show to your W or any other lady you meet.
