T2 -
This post is SO absolutely AWESOME!

I don't know that it relates to me as much - but I honestly think it might related to my WAS. I hope she comes to the same conclusions. I think she feels that she hasn't been able to develop those friendships because of her focus on US. When she needs to take ownership over her own life and live it to the fullest.

That is what she's trying to do - and I need to respect and understand that. And give her the support she needs. I hope she comes back to me and that we can find that kind of love for each other and for ourselves within our R.

Thank you for these fabulous insights into a person who has truly crossed through the fires and come out the other side a more complete and whole individual.

Congratulations and keep on going.
Totally