Along with how to respond from the text on page 4; I also messed up and did some internet snooping.
I defiantly had a moment of weakness and realize it. But, I found out my W still calls the OM from the EA(possible PA) almost everyday; and has been over the last couple months. Doing this is extremely counter productive, but I was just trying to gather all the information I could to you all to provide advice.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1