Maika - Tha is for the comments. I did not respond to her last night. It was the first time my "panic" button did not kick in right away like usual. I agree with you; I do not need to tell her again and again I do not want this. I also remember the last text barrage I received from her; she was angry I "left her hanging". So to avoid repeating those same mistakes; I do need to respond don't I?
I WILL WAIT for additional comments from others and vets.
Also; if we do sit down and discuss any thing - are there ground rules for that? Is there a specific thread to read for that? Do I bring up why I think we got to we're we are (from what I did only); or do I stick to future plans on how I think we can work? I'm not sure how to approach that situation.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1