Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc

Imagine for one minute that your W had suddenly passed away.

Imagine that you grieved awhile, and so did the kids. Imagine that you were fairly healed and that X amount of time had passed...

that you were okay. In fact, you were happy, even without her around.

So what would that look like?

What would life be like without your wife AND with you, happy??


Flesh this ^^ image out a bit. Take 2 minutes and ponder that.
What would your life be like? Would your job change? Or go back to school? Studying what? Studying music or another language or dance?

Any new hobbies? What about travel? Would you move? And sports and volunteering and hiking and anything else?

What things have you put off, or not done, for whatever reasons?


Do that ^^^^^^^