Remember it's not about your W it is about saving yourself and getting yourself feeling good about your future with or without your W. You have to get to a place where you are confident and feeling good about your future.
I will always love my W as she is the mother of my children however if it doesn't workout I know my future is bright. When I first came here I wanted nothing more than to put my family back together again and save my marriage. I learned along the way that I might not be able to save my marriage but I did save myself.
I know the task seems daunting but try to stay focused on yourself. Stay positive you never know what will happen. People get divorced and re-marry all the time. You have small children together so you both will be contected for many years to come.
