Hi HaWho, Job, SBJ, Rd and bttrfly.

thank you all for your messages. I didnt think it would of bothered me as much as it does. I'm more sadden for the girls to have not been as close to him and with their mom during this difficult time.

What also breaks my heart is he died as a LBS. His XW never gave him that sorry letter on what she did to him and his family. Its tragic that he witnessed his own daughter repeating it after his diagnosis with cancer. Its all heartbreaking.

The daughters did show remorse and teared up. Still no change in their plans not to attend the funeral.

I replied to her message about being a mess.

Our sympathies for your loss. Hope you can take some time off soon.

thanks again for your sympathies. I'm taking it one day at a time. I have to work as you know in sales can't miss a day. I'm just having trouble not seeing the girls. I wish I would see them during this hard time but I'll go through it alone. Thanks for asking

I'll leave it at that. I'm sure she has a lot on her plate.


M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015