She owe it to herself to see if the OM is meant to be. But its hard because I'm a provider and he's a risk. WTF.
She also said she don't want to move out until she gets on her feet. (No time frame for that). She keeps saying she dont know. Shes confuse. She confusing everyone else with her confusion.
Joe,
This is the BS that you can't put up with or it will end very badly for you.
Translation: Joe please be my plan B while I try out things with OM and see if we are meant to be. Oh yeah also please cook and clean the house for me until I get on my feet and leave you for the OM.
You said you were an Alpha. Would an Alpha put up with a BS deal like that?
I would have said: Honey I love you and would like for you to stay and work on our M. I know I have made some mistakes in the past but I would really like to put those behind us. If you want to go and try to see if you and OM have a connection that is fine but I will not be waiting for you if it doesn't work out. BTW no you can't wait until you get on your feet.
Joe I have been here for almost three years you can't nice your way back ie. cook and clean your way out of your situation.
Lastly, you have the DB lingo down, 180s, GAL and detaching but I am not sure you quite understand them completely.
