I'd like to get a policy on him with ME as the owner, obviously.
But per USAA I'd need his cooperation. Since he lied about who paid for it, it strikes me as meaning he justifies lying (even to his L) or he thinks no one will find out and or it won't matter.
Sure was a bad idea if he wanted to strong arm me into settling. I told my L "oops, I don't feel like it now."
Now that he's had a cardiac ablation (which he had after I got the policy) it'll cost far more or not happen at all. idiot.
We were supposed to jointly pay for the Survivor Benefits but now I want him to pay all of it for a # of years to compensate .
Thanks for the info however - if we can find each other in the RL I'd like to learn more.
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PS I also like the way of reframing your friend did. Whether h really loved me enough to do that, is probable but he also liked seeing himself as a good guy and I gave him that image b/c I sincerely loved and admired who I thought he was.
He's still among the smartest and for sure the hardest working man I've ever known. my mistake was seeing those traits as meaning he had character long after it should have been clear to me he did not.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016